Let’s start here. Loyalty Ova Love was fire. He talks about pouring into folks that fucked him over and still kept it moving. That is real life for a lot of us. The feeling is heavy and the beat knocks.

What he dropped this week

• Two songs in two days. One sounds like a clear shot at Moneybagg Yo. He is not hiding the smoke.
• He brought receipts too. A split screen clip lining up an old Finesse freestyle with a Moneybagg verse. Same cadence. Same pockets. You be the judge.

The antics

He is funny. That is part of the draw. The faces, the one liners, the timing. He knows how to keep a room. He goes live at wild hours and turns regular updates into shows. He talks contracts on camera. He calls for fades like it is nothing. Blogs eat that up because it is instant content. Labels hate it because every phone call becomes a headline. Fans are split. Half say speak your truth. Half say log off before you crash the bag.

The energy behind it

This is bigger than jokes. There is Memphis politics, old team tension, money talk, legal pressure, a chip that never left the shoulder. Streaming rewards chaos. Algorithms push clips that force people to pick a side. A comedian streak keeps him viral. A street posture keeps the crowd on edge. That mix can read like a crashout in public even when the music lines up in private.

My take

I am here for it. All of it. Stand on business all 2026. In the words of Charlamagne, who gives a fuck about the truth when the lie is more entertaining. If it turns into classic records, good. If it is pure mess, I am still watching. That is the internet.

Happy New Year. Keep the fake promises. We doing work. Last night the timelines were loud and the stages were packed. Cool. Today is quiet. Quiet is where people either move or make excuses.

I do not need a resolution. I need a deadline.

What we are not doing in 2026

• Vision boards with no dates.
• “I’m locked in” posts with nothing to show.
• Waiting on permission. Nobody is coming.

What we are doing

• One goal per month. Small and loud. Finish it or own it.
• Proof or it did not happen. Screenshots. Links. Numbers.
• Five-play rule. If it will not matter after five reps, do not waste a week.

Pressure checklist

1. Pick one lane. Health. Money. Craft. Relationships. Choose one for January.
2. Pick one action. Book the class. Drop the song. File the LLC. Call the trainer.
3. Pick one date. Put it on the calendar and pay for something so it hurts to skip.

My take

I love the party. I love the music. But the flex is not last night. The flex is February when you are still on schedule. TalkYoShhhh is about outcomes. If it is cap, we calling it. If it is real, we showing it off.

Billboard’s new rules just shook the room. For the first time in 35 years, there are no rap songs in the Hot 100 Top 40. Kendrick and SZA’s “Luther” got bounced under the update, and the timeline went crazy. Some say the charts moved the goalposts. Some say the music been light.

What changed

Billboard added a longevity rule. If a record doesn’t reach the Top 25 within a set window, it can fall off. That’s how “Luther,” which was sitting at 38, got pushed out. Facts.

Why folks are heated

• Team Rules: They think the system is trimming slow burners that used to climb on sweat and word of mouth.
• Team Records: They say make better songs. No excuses. If it hits, it climbs.

The bigger picture

Rap still runs the conversation. But pop has the Top 40 in a headlock right now. If we want that slot back, the records have to live past the first listen. Five plays. Ten plays. Replay value is the only cheat code.

TalkYoShhhh stance

Stop crying to the scoreboard. Drop better music or beat the rules with volume and quality. If the hook is lazy, the chart is not your problem.

Everywhere you scroll, somebody’s “doing the work” with a ring light and an affiliate link. I’m pro-therapy, pro-growth, pro-boundaries. But the timeline turned recovery into a brand, and now the language of healing is the new clout pack.

The Vibe

We swapped barbershop honesty for buzzwords. Folks weaponize “boundaries” to dodge accountability, call ghosting “nervous system regulation,” and sell ebooks about “soft life” from hard lies.

The Tell

• Performance: Every “lesson” ends with a funnel.
• Spin: Hurting people, but captioning it as growth.
• Cosplay: Therapy-speak with no therapist.

The Price

Real people with real pain stop trusting real help. We meme what needs medicine, and clap for confessionals that never change behavior.

Bottom line: Healing is quiet. Discipline is boring. Internet rehab ain’t either.

We glorified “chase” culture so hard that folks forgot silence speaks louder than a good morning text. In 2025, attention is currency—and “Seen • 10:37 PM” is a bounced payment. Stop arguing with notifications.

1) Read Receipts Don’t Lie—People Do

If they wanted to, they would. If they could, they still might not. The algorithm didn’t ghost you—they did. Don’t invent emergencies to justify a slow fade.

2) “I’m Busy” vs. “You’re Optional”

• Busy: “Can’t talk rn, hit you after 7.” (Time stamp + intent.)
• Optional: LOL reacts to your story but never answers the question you asked.

3) The Trilogy of Mixed Signals

1. Hovering: Watches every story like a Netflix series.
2. Half-Reply: Answers one line and dodges the plan.
3. Hard Vanish: Pops up when they’re bored, not when you’re needed.

4) Standards > Strategies

You can play games or you can build peace. One gets you dopamine hits, the other gets you reciprocity. Pick a lane and stay out of people’s gray areas.

Bottom Line

“Seen” is a sentence. If your name doesn’t ring, stop knocking like they lost the key. Put your energy where it pays interest.